Contact Me

  Flickr    Twitter   

2009-11-25

Step Out

It has been a long time since I have had the time to participate in Jamie Ridler's amazing circle of wishers; but this week, I felt compelled, and of course, as usual the prompt is very timely.
Jamie asks,

What step to you wish to take?

It's time for me to step out. Out of my cocoon of safety and into the world. Over the past couple of years, I have holed up inside myself, recuperating from a series of loses. I did not do this consciously, but done it was.

It was not so hard to do. I work in a highly interactive and socially demanding environment. Going home and inside the quiet of myself, is a necessary response sometimes in order to survive.

But I went overboard.

And as a natural consequence, my social life has shrunk to a nonentity.
The phone has stopped ringing.
People have moved on with their lives without me in them.

Well, it's time to change that.

Time to reconnect with the rest of the world.

And here is how I will do it.

I will take my work to a café. I have a laptop now. I am not restricted to a specific spot.
I will reconnect with those I have lost track of.
I will volunteer and help my community.
I will take an art class, and maybe join a writers' circle.
I will go out at least once a week, even if it's alone. Just to get out.

I will step out.
Get out of head, and into the world.

I wish to fill my life with interactions and experiences and people.

There. I put it out into the universe. :)

May all your wishes come true!

31 comments:

myrope said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also. I see lots of amazing encounters and experiences ahead of you!

Jennifer said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also. I see amazing things coming your way!~

Thank you SO much for your awesome comment on my blog. I noticed that it posted about 3 times so I tried to delete 1 and it took all 3 away. I'm so sorry. I loved what you said and it made me smile!~

You ROCK Too!!!

LMA said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

sema said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Jane said...

For different reasons, I have been in that place where I became socially isolated and holed up inside myself. Taking steps to venture out is wonderful and it does absolutely lead to new and sometimes unexpected blessings. You have me inspired to take some of my collage art out in public.

Judi said...

As Genie wishes for herself, so I also wish for her.

Just remember to leave a spot at the cafe for someone to join you!

onasilentsea said...

I have been (and maybe still am) in the same place you are. I wish you well.

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Bleeding Heart said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Wendy said...

As Genie wishes for herself, so I wish for her too.

Lisa PN said...

So good to see you here! I too just returned after a long absence!

Such a wonderful step! I love it!

May you build a brilliant community so that you might be surrounded by love, laughter and light.

as genie sea wishes for herself, so i wish for her also!

Boho mom said...

"Losers" you say?
Wow - can I identify with this wish!
Here's to taking the step to getting out there and leaving your comfort zone.
You are way too cool to keep yourself from getting "out there".
Missed ya tons!!!
:)

Paula - Buenos Aires said...

Yay! Go Genie! :D

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

WrightStuff said...

We all know what happened to J K Rowling when she took her work to a cafe!!
Sounds like plenty of steps in the right direction! Good stuff.

Sulwyn said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Karen D said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also. May it be so. May you re-connect with community and friends old and new.

gemma said...

That time away was necessary for you. We all need healing seasons.
and now....
As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Lisa K said...

I really like your socializing list. For different reasons, but the same outcome, I have gone through the same. Been trying to figure out how to re-connect. Your post has lots of energy and ideas...thanks!

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her as well!

Suzie Ridler said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Powerful wish, there is a lot of energy in here! Stepping out is a great wish, enjoy!

Robin said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her!

I'm right there with you, so don't worry about getting out and about. The first steps are the hardest, but remember that they're steps TOWARD your new life and AWAY from the old one. Hurrah!

Lay Hoon said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Wish your life to be filled with interaction and experience.

Shell said...

As Genie wishes for herself, I wish for her also.
I applaud you for going out there to find new friends.

Laura said...

As you wish for yourself, i wish for you also.

Beverley Baird said...

Missed you!
As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.
May your life be filled with fabulous connections!

Giulietta said...

Hi Genie Sea,

Like that you are going full force to step out. That's great. Another place to meet folks is on a committee in your town or city. Many interesting folks volunteer in their own back yards. I wish for you to have a full, fantastic social life very soon!

Giulietta, Inspirational Rebel

intothedawn said...

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, so I wish for her also! May you reconnect with all the people and places that are important to you!

Sarah Lulu said...

*waving* from Australia! Look how far you connected today. *smile*

Love your wish....

As Genie Sea wishes for herself, I so lovingly wish this for her also. xxx

rosebud101 said...

Genie, You go, girl! I admire your persistence, your courage, and your determination! :)

differenceayearmakes said...

As Genie wishes for herself, so I wish for her also.

Here's to emerging in the new year!

Steffi said...

This is strong stuff.

As you wish for yourself, I truly wish for you also!

Peace, love and happiness to you!

Kara aka Mother Henna said...

As you wish, may it be!

And I wish I lived near you coz I would take that art class with you! :)

miracles,
k-

rebecca said...

Put it out into the Universe Genie and so it shall be.

I will do the same. Thanks for inspiring....